As most things that I try to plan, I tend to bumble them up quite a bit. Today was jammy day, a day of tv watching, naps and just being lazy was on the agenda with Chandler. This was also the beginning of our little deal we made earlier in the week for him to watch SATC and for me to watch Dexter.
Apparently when I moved back in January (with the movers packing everything) I have misplaced the first and fifth seasons of the series. I have looked a few places and even have one theory which he denies. I think that he hid the DVDs in an effort to not have to watch them. Tomorrow I will dig deeper and see where in the world they could have gone to because this is quite frustrating. And if you haven’t heard from me by Monday or Tuesday can you send someone over to see if I am buried under the crap that I own?
But I will admit, I am enjoying Dexter. A bit strange but well paced show and Dexter is a cutie. Just don’t tell him that since he likes it when he is right. And well, I am always right. . .
Last night we went to see Harry Potter, it was great and I cannot wait for the second part. Before we left for the theater he gave me a Peanuts coloring book and I think that is one of the sweetest gestures ever. I have been coloring some today while watching football. He also was kind enough to help put my tree together. There are some places where the lights are not currently on, so I will have to restring some lights but at least the sucker is up.
No one likes to be compared to the other’s exes but I think that through the years I have been able to at least better my situation with each failed relationship. I have learned lessons and also seen the red flags that I should have seen long before I did. I have also learned a lot about myself.
It isn’t about fixing the person or creating a Ken doll to schlep around town with you. It is about sitting in your jammies, watching tv, laughing and being able to have a conversation, to be comfortable with the other person hanging around. I can be difficult to deal with, I also can have issues with sharing my time but as of right now, I can say that it seems to come very easily with him.
I guess I am growing up a bit but I am not sure if I can compare to a McRib. . . yeah, I don’t get it either.
Stumbling Through Life 